As is the case for many parents, they find themselves getting caught up in the expectations of society.   The result of such strivings regularly breeds not just healthy competition, but also comparison.   This leads further and further away from contentment, and often creates a two-headed monster, finding little satisfaction without increasing status up the social ladder, inclusive also of the insatiable hunger of monetary gain.

The sad result is often evidenced through the innocent eyes of their children.   It is not an uncommon occurrence that parents "half-listen" when their children come to them with concerns, or seeking guidance and encouragement.

Bobby listens intently at the dinner table as Dad and Mom voice one of their common interests ...their popularized political views.    They both have a fondness for their son's fourth grade teacher, whose main focus when they'd met for a teacher's meeting was not purely educational, but filled with accolades for this "Land of Opportunity", the United States of America.   But after the meal, thoughts and aspirations go their separate ways.   Dad picks up the Sports and Leisure section of the newspaper, while Mom thumbs through a fashion magazine.

George is thinking of how he can come up with the necessary funds to buy a new fishing boat.   He doesn't really hear his son's enthusisam, but nonetheless pats him on the head, "That's good, Bobby!"

Bobby was seeking encouragement, but his enthusiasm is not diminished as he puts forth his idea to Mom.   Mom looks at the sink full of dishes that has to be dealt with.   She can exercise the principle of "out of sight, out of mind" for the pile of dirty laundry in the basement ...but the dishes can't wait.   Normally, neither would be an overwhelming chore, but she has plans to go shopping with a few of the ladies ...a rite of passage to fit in at church, and a near necessity for the upcoming social gathering.   Mom's desire is the same as Dad's, and her response is no different, "That's good, Bobby!"

Bobby understands that this is often the case, that adults seldom really listen, but he knows his parents love him.   And he will be sure to get their attention when the President writes him back.

Bobby is sure the President is too busy to write every little boy, but his plan is sure to work.   He will also send a package of Grandma's cookies.